Unfortunately, I'm a guy with a very bad impostor sindrome, and a) whenever I see guys like him in worse/intellectually less challeging jobs than me I think I must be just lucky b) whenever I see guys like him I think I must be useless. :)
Unfortunately, I'm a guy with a very bad impostor sindrome, and a) whenever I see guys like him in worse/intellectually less challeging jobs than me I think I must be just lucky b) whenever I see guys like him I think I must be useless. :)
It's not clear to me that he would have contributed more to the world had he become some high-status academic.
Different goals lead to different outcomes, regardless of innate ability.
And I'm a big believer of luck and randomness. Since I've got a kid I wonder how do we even survive, life is so risky, starting from the birth itself.
Anyway, I think perspective gives you more happiness. At least it did for me.
Indeed. Like, for example, being born with a high IQ?
Would you mind explaining this a little bit more, please? I would imagine that significant or groundbreaking mathematical discoveries qualify as "great things" by someone's reckoning.
Most work in pure mathematics -- even outstandingly brilliant work done by outstandingly brilliant people -- is never useful outside pure mathematics. If you regard pure mathematics as very valuable in its own right, that's no problem. But if you care mostly about practical benefits, you might think that someone with the mental characteristics needed to win a Fields Medal would have done better to use that wonderful brain for something that benefits the world more.
(For my part, I'm glad that some people with wonderful brains use them to enrich pure mathematics, because I happen to love pure mathematics. But I think those more practically minded people have a point.)
Perhaps this is untrue on a timescale of decades or centuries.
The list is expansive if you care to look for it.
The question that's relevant here, though, is what fraction of pure mathematics is ever useful outside pure mathematics.
I think this would be difficult to measure. My guess: only a small fraction, but some of that turns out to be incredibly useful.
Myself, while I was not an Olympian in Math or Physics (the US fields some very competitive teams full of people who had better resources than me), I consider myself accomplished for what I had & the environment I grew in. I ultimately abandoned academia, in part because of the uncertainty, difficult work, and because my caring for friends won out - attempting to become wealthy enough to support friends in their endeavors, and giving them the resources I never had mattered more to me. I am perfectly happy being a lead developer, mentoring people to success & building products that help people's lives. I have no regrets.
It should also be mentioned that being someone who is supremely accomplished in competitions does not mean that the person is the smartest - there may be others smarter than him/her, and just did not have the fortune of growing up in an environment that could best foster that intelligence. Many of the smartest realize this, and don't hang their hats on any particular competition achievement.
Have you considered that he might be perfectly happy where he is as he can basically relax at his job as most of the tasks that come up , even the difficult ones must be a cakewalk for him.
Success has a very narrow definition these days.
Here's an interesting story : http://heuna.tumblr.com/post/2415073898/kim-ung-yong-a-child...
I can say exactly the same about me, sometimes feeling like the biggest idiot around, with serious brain damage (really, not joking). But then I realize that I managed when working 100% to increase my paycheck 20x compared to my first Java 100% job right after school, doing roughly same job (it's a long story). Many kids being brighter than me, they now have "meh" jobs at best. For success, initial talent is just one of many properties.
Anyway, what we should strive for is happiness, with oneself, with job, people and world around us. Rest are just details.