I find it amusing that asking for source, using wikipedia's standard, is considered ”tone” of any sort, let alone a rude one.
No offense was intended in the grandparent.
No offense was intended in the grandparent.
Everyone gets the reference, but it's not really the same situation.
Yes, it's not perfect, but nothing is, and that's not a good enough reason to give up on trying.
But when you play the devil's advocate you have to take a little bit of extra care in your wording, or at least, this is the pattern I have noticed when your argument disagrees with the consensus.