Go is always "pass by value", and it's true that I've watched developers struggle to grasp the full ramifications of what that means regarding memory usage. But not understanding the subtlety of memory allocation usually means your programs will simply run slower and consume more memory. It does not usually mean that your programs will run incorrectly.
Given that the OP mentions that they find the slower, more expensive execution of racket programs to be an acceptable trade-off, I'm surprised that they have a problem with this.
Personally, I prefer running in a language that allows me to reason about the memory allocation explicitly. I'd only prefer to give that up in favor of a declarative language that could compute the optimal execution for me. Unfortunately that language is a bit of a unicorn for general purpose programming.