In the RSS case, you're not trying to find cool people by going to their favourite place, instead you go to their homes. Which is all nice and well, except you have another problem: how do you find out where the cool people live? Especially if you get all your input from the world through the RSS feeds, you're well on your way to getting a very limited view of the world (sort of like only watching Fox News, or one of the other more or less biased news outlets). Your RSS sources will act as gate keepers by only linking to what they find interesting, which can lead to a narrowing spiral.
In short: RSS is very useful, but make sure you're not only listening to a single subset of opinions. To prevent this I do what I suspect what most people here do: I keep track of my favourites using RSS and look for new stuff on HN, Reddit, etc.