The comments that really drop my jaw are the people who seem to hold up Java as a "better" C++. Java is okay, but from its sketchy real-world performance, to its crappy generic programming support and poor ability to enforce such type-safety basics as const-correctness, I've never been impressed. Take the time to learn C++ for what it is, instead of "C with objects" and you'll find that it's far more elegant than the backlash would suggest.
I think that what most people really hate about C++ stems from the widespread use of legacy compilers that incorrectly implement the spec, or implement older versions of the spec. This problem exists for every programming language in the universe (e.g. Ruby 1.8.6 vs. Ruby 1.8.7 vs. Ruby 1.9), but since C++ is widely implemented by multiple vendors, the problem appears worse. If Python or Java were implemented by Microsoft and GNU and four other smaller companies, you'd see the same horrible compatibility problems with those languages, too.