Unless you earn 3X the median in your area, living on 35% of your salary means living with below average expenses. Whatever your salary, you will probably think normal is normal for your peer group which usually is closer to whatever you earn than median so even if you earn much more than median you will probably be required to be abnormal. Being abnormal is hard to decide.
However you achieve this, it will probably require you to make lifestyle changes that most people like you consider unacceptable. Move someplace cheap. Start a commune in an old mansion with 6 other families/couples. Live in a cabin. Squat. :) Live with your parents. Don't own a car.
Whatever the specific setup, spending 25-35% of your salary is unlikely to be a moderately different from the norm in your peer group. But, also not impossible.
Consider:
(a) Students, broke artists, unemployed and lots of other people do live on very low incomes. It's possible. If you earn the median, then 10-20% of people in your area live on 35% of what you do. Matt mentioned 14k p/a as a grad student.
(b) This is the "find a way" scenario like a startup. Startups may require you to deal with ungodly stress work, 100 hour weeks and do "impossible" things. If retiring within 10 years is valuable to you, it might be worth it.
And in any case, there's no sense giving up on the idea completely even if you can't hit the most aggressive savings rate; even if you only save 50% of your income, you can retire after 17 years, which puts you on track to retire in your early 40s instead of your late 60s. Even better, as you progress through your career, your salary will likely increase, but your spending doesn't have to match. 50% of your salary right out of college may only be 25% of your salary later on.
This did a couple of things... it kept a lid on living expenses because there was no additional cash, but it also provided an easy way for me to raise my savings every year without having to make too many conscious choices, just by moving every pay raise into savings.
NB I neither agree nor disagree with his ideas (still have to decide.. :))
[1] http://www.mrmoneymustache.com/2011/09/28/get-rich-with-movi... [2] http://www.mrmoneymustache.com/2011/10/06/the-true-cost-of-c...
Median incomes are 75% higher in the high cost area, but housing costs are 200-400% higher, which, being a major expense for just about everyone, quickly erodes any gains you might make on the income side. Services, like internet connections, were also more expensive in the high cost area. Goods like iPhones are the same in both places, you are right, but is actually a larger portion of your disposable income because of the higher living costs.
The one place you might be able to make gains in the high cost area is if you struggle through paying those 400% higher housing costs with the intent of selling your home and moving to a low cost area later in life. Then you can ride that significant equity you have built, assuming the property maintains or increases in value.
That said, my preferred method is to live in a low cost area and work in a high cost area (telecommute).
yes but it also depends how you consider in your calculation the costs of telecommuting (costs of travelling, time lost etc..)
I'm thinking about this right in these days, as I'm living and working in a quite rich but expensive country (Luxembourg) where real estate prices (rent&purchase) have grown a lot in the past years, and are still growing (two digits increase of prices yty), while you have surrounding border areas (Belgium, France, Germany) that are way cheaper (half or even less per square meter) but are located 30-40km away with really congested roads or slow public lines (at least 45min per trip, easy to become 1-2hours in case of accidents or traffic jams)
Since it seems that English isn't your first language, I thought I'd point out that "telecommuting" means you work from home, and "commuting" means that you travel a long distance to get to work. So, there are no costs or time lost when telecommuting, because you don't have to go anywhere.
The commenter you're replying to is saying he works from home in a low cost area, but works for a company in a high cost area (possibly hundreds or thousands of kilometers away).
You can always move to the low-cost area when you are ready to stop working.