I will admit that I am friends with Emil. We were both White House Fellows serving in different departments during the first year of the Obama administration where we both quit our jobs to take civil service positions to improve our country.
You would think someone commenting on such an important and controversial story in tech like this would fully disclose that she is in-fact friends with Emil and worked with him right at the beginning of the article? Seems like a big conflict of interest here and changes the tone from "see this from another perspective" to "I am defending my friend, so everything I write is going to be heavily biased"
I feel as though even Nicole's account is sensationalist in itself. This line right here: At that point, I wanted to grab Emil. I kind of knew what Ben was up to. - A journalist asking questions at an event for journalists? Who would have thought such a thing would happen?
Nicole then goes on to confirm what the previous lines of text confirmed that this is an emotional and personal response defending her friend:
I am upset that Ben sensationalized what happened at that dinner.
I am not trying to say that the original story by Ben wasn't sensationalist, but it wasn't a fabricated lie either. Emil said what he said, this article even confirms that. I have no issue with Nicole rallying to the defense of a friend, I would do the same, but I would at least disclose the fact before, not after.