Believe me, I'd love to give these guys bad press--TechCrunch or Gawker could do a nice story at their expense. But that's my friend's decision to make, not mine. The last thing I want to do is undermine his defense.
I'm in exactly the same situation and it's incredibly frustrating, but the alternative is to open your mouth and potentially undermine your legal defense. About the best you can do is to fight the lawsuit to the best of your abilities, but that unfortunately requires that you route all public communication through your lawyers.