It's early stages for the proxygen open source project. Maybe further down the road we'll provide off-the-shelf binaries, but we think the library is already interesting enough to warrant a release.
Also the previous load balancers had constraints we weren't willing to accept - they required special connectivity to our networks, we could not use particular combinations of options, and we had to rely on vendors to solve problems that most of their customers were not encountering and/or able to detect.
I'm surprised more systems don't take this approach of doing more work in L7 proxies.
I don't work at FB but near the bottom in the comments you can see that they build on existing C++ libraries that have been tried/tested. We do the [same thing][1] with smaller services simply because its easier in the SDLC process to move libraries that are already in-house.
[1]: https://github.com/bloomberg/bde/tree/master/groups/bsl
Apache Traffic Server only got SPDY support in a release about 45 days ago according to their release notes.
There are many other relatively basic features besides those, and similar considerations exist for the other projects that existed back then (and even now).