Well rock bottom or not I appreciate that you responded. I am pretty sure that he didn't have is physical eyes on me. But clearly some how he was able to 'see' that I was no sleeping and instead was 'online" some how. So that he sent me a message within about a minute of me pulling up my Facebook account. I hadn't done anything on Facebook yet, chat is turned off. So I figured I was "hidden" unseen. Though he is an ex-cop, I doubt he has any "hacker" skills or abilities so it is very unlikely that he has accessed my iCloud account.

1. after the comment was made and I questioned it, it then turned into a challenge. 2. Yes, I was intentionally hiding, so thought anyway. 3. No, He is 15+ miles away from me and to my knowledge he doesn't know my address, though that information is easy to find.

So is he yanking my chain, and the timing of his message and me getting on Facebook was purely coincidental and just perfect timing? Or was there actually away for him to know that I was online???