I'm still left not really understanding either what Stellar seeks to achieve
If you trust me to speak on behalf of stellar advocates, then my good faith belief is that they'd describe it as something like "We want stellar to be TCP/IP for money." (People who like Bitcoin qua the protocol or blockchain technology rather than qua an asset also sometimes use that metaphor, for what it's worth.) The implication is that "TCP/IP is a fundamentally important technology which allowed other technologies which changed the face of the world" and "money is a crosscutting concern of many extremely important problem domains which you care about."