I'm a white South African Software Engineer, too. Family arrived here +- 200 years ago.
If that doesn't make me African, what does? I can promise you that if I go to Europe, I won't be considered European!
If that doesn't make me African, what does? I can promise you that if I go to Europe, I won't be considered European!
There is a strong degree of vigilance required. However, it should also be admitted that many white South Africans don't make much of an effort to integrate, or to be constructive, instead resorting to constant belittlement, obstructionism and moaning. This combination of white intransigence, and nascent black African supremacism doesn't bode well for the future.
Most people are only consciously politically correct.