> "What if multiple services are utilizing a shared library? For each service to be independent in the way I think you are advocating for, you would need multiple copies of that shared library (either via separate copies in separate repos or a shared copy via something like subrepos)."
No, you have a notion of packages in your build system and deployment system.
You want to use FooWizz framework for your new service BarQuxer? Include FooWiz+=2.0 as a dependency of your service. The build system will then get the suitable package FooWiz when building your BarQuxer. Another team on the other side of the company also wants to use FooWiz? They do the exact same thing. There is never a need for FooWiz to be duplicated, anybody can build with that package as a dependency.