Great story. It is good to know that some programmers do learn over time.

For every 1 story like yours there are probably 10 where someone is still traying to get "revenge" by saying nasty things about you know who.

Those more common stories get replicated through the wires and the end result is that no one cares about programming anymore; they are simply interested in discussing interpersonal relations.

Would you rather have your software written by a foolish programmer who is pleasantly tactful or a competent and conservative one who is tactless?

The answer of course varies depending on what you are really after.