Funny part is they seem to hate the 5/5s cause its too tall and still prefer the 4s. I know a girl that downgraded back to her 4s because the extra height on the 5 was too much.
With my girl hands I pretty much agree though, I do miss the smaller height of the 4s over my 5. I think when people talk about what phones they prefer they should also bust out their glove size. Mine is a 7, and any phone > 4"ish starts to really frustrate me when I try to text one handed.
iPad + iPhone Nano = winning combination. If Apple makes a 6" iPhone, I'd sure hope they at least retain the 4" version, if not shrink & optimize for a much smaller version. I need a phone that excels at being a phone and integrates well into the iOS ecosystem; got my tablet for applications needing a more complex/larger interface.
Yes, but this is your use case.
While there are a lot of people who share your use case, there are probably a lot more people who don't.
Which is why the product diversity on the market right now is good. There's a decent chance that you'll find a phone that will work for your particular use case.
If the rumors are true and Apple decides to make the iPhone 6 4.7" and 5.5", what do I get next time I'm ready for an upgrade? I think it's silly for Apple to leave money on the table by only selling the current form factor when there's obviously a lot of demand for a larger iPhone, but it's equally silly to ignore the market for smaller phones like every other smartphone manufacturer is.
I have smallish hands and it's just not that big a deal to be honest. My last phone was iphone sized and I wouldn't go back to that size for just about anything.