> Who complains about what he is owed?
> And throw a tantrum like he is 3 years old
> You gotta love it though somebody still speaks from his soul
i'm actually struggling to think of an idolized figure in tech who isn't an "asshole".
edit: put "asshole" in quotes, which gets my point across better
edit: and there are plenty of anecdotal "Kanye is a nice guy when you meet him" stories as well. Evel Knievel sued Kanye and described him as 'vulgar an offensive', after they met he said "I thought he was a wonderful guy and a gentleman":
http://usatoday30.usatoday.com/life/music/news/2007-11-27-ka...
Also read Paul Allen's book -- specifically the part where Gates tried to screw Paul by diluting his stock.
http://www.joelonsoftware.com/items/2006/06/16.html
Certainly feared to some extent.
Maybe not as idolized as Jobs/Gates/Zuck, but there are non-asshole public figures in tech, such as Woz, Tim O'Reilly, Matt Mullenweg, Joel Spolsky. Being abrasive isn't a prerequisite to success.
Also, I doubt all these tech figures are actually assholes. Arguably they're forced to adopt those personas publicly by an industry which demands it.