No, I recognized that this is a self-preservation tactic and (thought) I implied I wished it weren't needed.
Please read some of the other things I said -- I'm actually on the same side as him.
Please read some of the other things I said -- I'm actually on the same side as him.
This seems to contradict when you previously wrote that it is up to him, and him alone, to change his behavior, when here it seems to be actually a needed tactic bourn of forces outside of his control. Allocating 50% blame doesn't seem terribly sympathetic, either.
But never mind, I have probably nitpicked more than my fair share for today.
I didn't feel that this warranted more or less blame on anyone's part. He seems like he might assume a woman is up tight based on his experiences -- I can't change how he feels about that. Unfortunately I also can't change the women that caused him to feel that way. All I can do is try my hardest to not be like the women he speaks of and ask him to reconsider his position.
I appreciate the nitpicking fwiw. I think you misinterpreted what I said, possibly due to the fact that I sometimes suck with words.