Actually HFT does manipulate the overall price of the share. In the public markets. And that's the problem.
Every trade will affect the price of a share but that's not manipulation, that's a functioning market. Unless you can explain why a trade made by HFT is somehow more devious or underhanded than a trade made by another actor in the market.
HFT isn't based on market manipulation. Some HFT firms perform market manipulation, as do some non HFT firms, but this practice is illegal. (For example, newedge was recently fined for market manipulation)
Losing your money in the stock market != market manipulation.