"For instance, once I was accused of being emotionally attached to my code"
Despite the fact that in the very next paragraph she points out that this was an irrational response provoked by her situation.
The comments here are completely and utterly missing the point of this article. It is about perception, and the subtle, agonizing torture that sexism inflicts on a subconscious level that is ingrained in the tech world on such a deep level that it is extremely difficult to properly reason about.
I do not have very much faith in your conclusions when you are pretending an entire paragraph of the article doesn't exist.