"Time is limited, make every day count." Yeah yeah yeah. We know. Everyone knows.
Took a sudden death and a lot of sobbing today to make me say fuggit and just write, without worrying about being novel or unique.
I ordinarily don't care about upvotes, but something so unoriginal (but hopefully important) as this getting upvoted by my peers on HN is really encouraging.
For what it's worth, I think the personal tone of this piece makes it interesting. The theme might be "time is limited" but it would be selling it short to simply reduce it down to that.
Everyone knows, but we still need reminding every now and then.
In August someone I care deeply about was diagnosed with leukaemia. It was a big shock and taught me how precious time is, yet already I find myself slipping back into the mindlessness of everyday life.
Thanks for the reminder Derek.
You know me by my real name. We talked in the past. I use a pseudonym so what I write here is not affected by my name and I have better feedback or just go unnoticed(just your name alone could make all the responses negative or positive).
As you already know, what someone who has traveled the world* considers "normal" is very different from what the rest of the world does. You just understand how much you know when just talking with normal people and you see how less they know.
Remember the Parable of the talents, how fear could immobilize, fear of not doing good enough work.
What I would do is to start writing, not caring about publishing or not, you don't need fear. Then ideas will come and you will be astonished how much things live in your head.
Greetings!
*Or lived in a circus, by the way.
Thanks for your writing, and sorry for your loss.
Welcome back.
Secondly, even if it is something others have said, only one person can say it with your experience and your voice. You. That makes it novel in some shape, form or fashion. Something people always seem to forget because they get so distracted by said concept of novel and unique.
You linked to the War of Art in your post, and letting the concept of novel and unique get in the way is a more insidious form of the Resistance talking. I know, because I let it stop me for a long time. Now I try to write more regularly and hone my craft so I can create something to bring my own unique self and experience to the table and try and give that to others to inspire them as well.
I just put her to bed, and I'd like to leave the rocking chair and go sit with my wife. Right now, just having someone here is the most important thing to her.
As I read about this, it both breaks my heart and inspires me to live different. I have been touched deeply by many people. I hope I can have the opportunity to touch at least one life as deeply as mine has been.
Rest assured, Derek... your writing has touched lives. Mine included. Please... write more. Priorities will shift, but whatever you do, please don't stop writing!
Maybe it's not as obvious to you but, I feel, your writing adds some much needed colourful philosophy to our community. As you say yourself, all too often we end up with our heads buried deep in virtual technical problems and forget to embrace the world that surrounds us. I can't count how many people I've shown your leadership talk to [0].
I have read the news reporting and I just don't understand how he came to be hit and for the result of that to be so terrible. Something in the reporting just does not add up and I could do with some normal person rather than a journalist to make sense of it for me.
I am a cyclist and I have a vested interest in knowing how to avoid deadly situations. In my experience to date accidents are always unexpected, however, with hindsight, so much could have been avoidable. Negligence is not always 100% one party or the other, even if it is 0.5% negligence on my side and 99.5% on the other side, there is still something in my control. There are easy wins like having a maintained bike, with lights, high-visibility clothing and no headphones being worn. There are also more subtle ones like confidence, not being deferential to motor cars and having pedal cleats correctly placed.
Was there anything that your friend could have done differently? Was there anything in the layout of the street that could have been different? What was the totally unexpected thing that other cyclists including myself need to add to their internal database of random hazards to look out for?
Given that this is police investigating police a considered and independent study of what actually happened could be of great use.
I probably heard about a dozen different ways children of friends (I'm Dutch) died from just being hit at 5mph and hitting their head the wrong way when falling.
Sad & happy to hear you will continue to crank out words.
Your writings of your baddass journey have always been inspiring.. I'm so sorry about your friend.