We camouflage tanks. We build stealth fighters. If obscurity had zero value, we'd just paint the tanks bright pink with hot orange flames and drop all the stealth research too. No need to sneak around. Obscurity is useless right?
Hide from the bear and it might not find and eat you. Move your ssh port and your logs will have less idiots out there filling them up. That fact alone is worth changing ports.
Obscurity has its place along side other tactics. And when you put it all together, you'll have a more secure system.
So please cut the "Security through obscurity" crap.