These are false beliefs and one of the reasons that (this is obviously an estimate off the top of my head) about 95% of programmer time is wasted solving problems that have already been solved numerous times. I see people hinting at security or other concerns related to using Meteor in production, but I have yet to see an example where one of these concerns actually caused a production issue.
I would be very interested to hear if anyone had actually tested Meteor in production, or had specific concerns related to security or anything that leads them to the conclusion that they must come up with their own different/more complex solutions to problems that Meteor solves.
Taking advantage of a system that solves 90% of your problems rather than reinventing six wheels is not lazy. Its just sane and mature.
The psychology of programmers related to tools and frameworks is childlike. Its as if everyone is in a playroom with a bunch of tiny blocks of different shapes. Every once in awhile a kid figures out how to construct generally useful connector shapes or recognizable objects from the smaller blocks. Then when another kid wants to use the larger pre-composed structures to play with, everyone makes fun of him because he is 'cheating' and must be too dumb to use the tiny blocks.