My friend, you sound like my clone. I haven't really figured it out. We may just be doomed.
In my dream world, I'd have friends I could go lift weights with, have a BBQ, get dressed up, go clubbing, and talk continuation/passing style and credit default swaps while we do it.
I don't think you should communicate these issues to other people. Which group wouldn't be offended? It certainly won't help anything.
To an extent I can agree, but I think the internet is great for discussions like these. I'm not particularly afraid of offending strangers, especially if I've put in a lot of effort to avoid it, but the feedback is great in helping me understand how people might react in the real world.