> mechanisms by which an egg can somehow "sense" and reject sperm.
Evolution doesn't work like an engineer. If you or I were going to sit down and say, "Hmm, how do we control the sex ratio from within the female's body?" we'd come up with things like a mechanism to differentiate the sperm and then try to apply that to a mechanism to block or help one group or the other, because modularity is good and such.
Evolution doesn't pay attention to the mechanism, just the result. Maybe it happens that one type of sperm is disproportionately affected by acidity levels or viscosity of cervical mucous or any of potentially hundreds of attributes of the environment the sperm will be encountering between meiosis and conception, and that's assuming any differentiation happens pre-conception. If there is such an effect, there's a good chance evolution will "spot it" and exploit it where the gain outweighs the cost; the female has (evolutionarily speaking) far more motivation to make use of it, if it involves any tradeoff with chance of conception.
Note that by his hypothesis, smaller litters or longer time between pregnancies probably is what you'd see if the decision was being made in the female's body, whether pre- or post-conception.