houses are impossibly expensive in Oakland also.
Is this what you were talking about?
www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=stabby
or
Many Oaklanders would point out that not all of the city suffers from extreme violent crime, but it would also seem that the areas convenient to a SF commute generally tend to be worse, and the good areas aren't that cheap.
If you're not a thug, all evidence (or at least many anecdotes) suggests that Oakland doesn't want you.
Ugh.