Epistemology is not my strong suit so please excuse me here, but how can you reasonably advocate for your positions in a worldview that specifically privileges personal experience?Epistemology is about how we know what we think we know. This is very separate from rhetoric, the art of trying to convince others with your words.
I personally focus on epistemology, which includes clarifying what I believe, why I believe it, how strongly I believe it, and what different things I could reasonably believe in different circumstances. Knowing these things often leads me to conclude, "I believe X, you seem to believe Y, there is no way that I am going to change your beliefs." This seems to me to be a feature, not a flaw.
I am unable to be friends with strongly religious types who are unable to muster the same feature.
I tend to agree that we infer theory from anecdotes not data and even that that is a good thing. But don't we have a responsibility after developing a theory to evaluate it before making claims about it?
In my world view, yes.
If you see me failing to properly qualify what I claim, then please call me on it.
That said, when I make a claim, I'm almost never going to give my full supportive reasoning for my world view. Life is too short.