"Is it sexual assault if I do that to my girlfriend of 5 years?"
It is if she says it is. That's the whole point, you don't decide, the circumstances don't decide, only she can decide.
It is if she says it is. That's the whole point, you don't decide, the circumstances don't decide, only she can decide.
My point was that I would hope I don't have to ask permission after 5 years without it being sexual assault, therefore whether that action is sexual assault is context dependent.
That said, this book advocates doing physically violating things to all women you would date in a short term time period, which is the kind of thing a serial rapist does.