>If someone criticizes your country, just point out how no country is perfect to deflect the criticism.
I'd be the first person to agree on many of the criticisms, but still, this:
>SG is a dictatorship
Is a total lie. And, yes, I will happily compare it to various "not perfect" non-dictatorships to make this point.
>it is well known that the Lee family have been running it as their own little fief for awhile now by controlling the press so they can continue to win elections.
No, not really.
The reason for PAP continually winning elections has more to do with the fact that they dragged the country from being a 3rd world country on a par with Tanzania to being richer than America. That wins elections.
Now that the country is largely very wealthy, it has also become very conservative. If you removed all censorship laws, the party would still win, just by a smaller margin.
>The dictatorship is completely benevolent, non-brutal, and very business-oriented, so the people tend to be relatively happy (not free but rich!)
The restrictions on one's freedoms are not significantly greater than in Europe or the US.
>Honestly, I'm not sure real democracy would have worked given the context SG is in. But that still doesn't excuse reality.
It is every bit as real a democracy as the United States, which has similarly draconian controls over the press by the business elite, but which has deluded itself into somehow thinking it's the world's gold standard in freedom of expression.