"Extremely" high starts around $350k per year for a mid-career (10 years) engineer and things aren't at that point right now.
Google says it's a 6:30 drive to NY, which is no Valley, but should present enough opportunities. One could get up early and be there by noon, for meetings or whatever.
What kind of maintenance fees would one be looking at, with a house that size?
A nice $50k house in Schenectady, NY (former industrial city 3 hours from NYC) has $5000/year taxes. The house is worth 10x the Jamestown house because of the proximity to state government (150k jobs).
If you want to live in the country, lots of cheap houses in rural towns <2 hours from NYC.
I still have faith that Real Technology will make a comeback when this social media bubble blows up and, after that happens, we're going to start to see an outline of the future emerging.
I hope there won't be a single "winning" location. I don't think that's a good thing for society.