Conspiracy or not, Google products fit the definition of spyware.
It really bugs me to see people claiming "Google is in bed with the US government," but fail to acknowledge the transparency report:
http://www.google.com/transparencyreport/userdatarequests/
Or how about when Google gave a range of NSLs they received? Does Microsoft do this?
All individuals who seek to silence others with a take-it-or-leave-it are people who do not want to suffer the mental dissonance of being frustrated with a provider they themselves use.