A public good is not just a good you want the government to provide, the term actually has a meaning.
And, frankly, the idea that my letter excludes your letter from the carrier's mailbag is laughable. No, they cannot fit in the same physical space, but there's room for more than one letter in the bag/carrier/truck.
Compare this to a real public good, e.g. national defense. National defense is non-rivalrous because me enjoying living in a non-communist country does not hinder you enjoying the same thing.
As for the postman being a romantic figure, not sure how that fits into the question of whether mail delivery is a public good or not.
I'd be happy if the money that is going to keep the postal service subsidized instead went into subsidizing universal internet access.
Ignoring the market doesn't make costs & benefits disappear. In fact the author argues that's what got them into this fix.
Postage works exactly the same way. No matter how expensive it is to get a package to you, you pay a fixed rate for it. However, you also pay proportional to the cost you impose on the system is that you pay per package.
Actually, you do pay for untilities based on how expensive it is to get to you. The local power folks won't run a line to whereever you happen to be "for free". They'll charge you, the developer, someone. If you're a long way from "enough" capacity, the cost can be significant.
That's why some folks aren't on the untilities grid.
Perhaps utilities were a bad choice of example on my part because of this usage confusion.
You are attempting to rely on a well-known logical fallacy.
See http://www.nizkor.org/features/fallacies/appeal-to-tradition...
What effect do universal service subsidies and other public works (such as highways) have on the rate of expansion of settlements?