The 'no-overloading' rule of Haskell is kind of annoying. You can import different definitions of the same function, its just that you then have to disambiguate with a prefix. Like 'List.foldl (+) 0 xs' versus 'Map.foldl (+) 0 xs'. This is made more annoying by the fact that core functions such as foldl aren't typeclass methods. AFAICT the only reason you are forced to disambiguate is because otherwise the compiler would need to use Prolog-style backtracking to typecheck your code on account of type inference. It's perfectly possible, its just that the designers didn't want to force this huge requirement on implementors. Plus a lot of people such as yourself feel that having multiple functions with the same name is a bad thing. I personally don't, as long as they have different types and the compiler is able to disambiguate which one you are referring to based on that type.
That's how Scala does it. Scala also lets you define new operators and use infix notation for methods, which gives programmers no excuse for violating conventional operator semantics. (In C++, the limited choice of operators tempts people to commit such atrocities as using + and * to denote non-commutative operations.)
Operators like + and * seem to cry out for generic treatment a la Common Lisp, but I don't know how well that technique scales to large codebases. Java's single-dispatch model is limited, but it seems to scale acceptably.
On the larger issue of free-for-all overloading I mostly agree with you: it causes unnecessary confusion. I'm comfortable with it and like it in my own personal code but I could see how you would want to avoid it in larger projects.
data Foo a = Blah a | Bar (Foo [a])
and you'll have no trouble making a function "showFoo :: Show a => Foo a -> String" using straightforward programming. If you try to do that in C++ you'll get infinite template recursion.Also, C++ templates don't restrict you to match the right type signatures, the way Haskell typeclasses do.
But other than that, they are pretty much the same kind of thing and are used in the same way.
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Edit: nm I see what you did there with the Foo a = ... | Blah (Foo [a]). That would probably break C++.