There was an entire talk given about the pain of needing to switch Linus Torvalds' divelog app from GTK to Qt and they seemed to have the same opinions I do: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gGZyVSOnqm0
Perhaps GTK4 is different and looks better cross-platform, I don't know, but I haven't heard of any new/prominent cross-platform apps that actually use it.
And the way I have been observing several top gnome devs' attitudes and abusiveness towards their own users the last handful of years does not sit well with me.