Niri or Umbriel with Noctalia shell is a wonderful experience, you can get similar on Mac with OmniWM. I briefly tried komorebi for windows too.
The vram usage is: niri = ~163mb
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noctalia = ~221mb ashell = ~2mb ironbar = ~10mb
I've used paperspoon but it's very laggy. Paneru is better but 3 finger swipe up or down shows all windows on all workspaces which makes it impossible to pick the window you want. (which paperwm didn't do)
It's slick, modern, efficient, and up to date.
I encourage trying that or similar.