I think Richard Hipp has quipped “if you think you can build a better SQLite by god you’re welcome to try!”
54min in was what I was thinking of.
“Lots of people have tried, you’re welcome to try”
I apologize if I gave a bad gloss, but I think it was roughly in the spirit of what you said.
Q: If a young developer said they wanted to fork SQLite and build something better, what would you tell them?
A: ... lots of people have tried. You're welcome to try. I think that the time has passed; it takes twenty five years, and it takes maniacal devotion to the cause.
This transcript doesn't include the hesitation, pauses, repeated words, incredulity etc. I got the vibe of beware wasted effort not an enthusiastic go do it quip.