>Many women in developed countries feel like they can’t afford the children they want, and that is because the cost of living has been adjusted for two working adults per household.
I don’t know, pretty much all women I have spoken to, almost all in the 90th percentile in income/wealth with the ability to to have more kids and have luxuries still choose to have 2 at most. Maybe 3 if they end up with 2 boys or 2 girls first. And that is because pregnancy and birth and breastfeeding and infant rearing suck.
Hell, as a man, I didn’t have to do any of that and I still wouldn’t want to have more than 2 kids. So whatever mentality leads to financially independent women choosing to have 7 kids is certainly very unique.
>in practice it’s hard to be a misogynist when you have like 3 daughters.
I have seen a lot of people be discriminatory towards groups of people, but choose to treat some members of that group of people better, e.g. if they are useful in some way or perhaps relatives, etc. They can even do it with traits they themselves have!