> how do you suggest I handle the following situation
The question is vague and doesn't seem related to the discussion. What do you mean "handle"? If you're having trouble handling it psychologically, see a therapist. If you're having trouble getting the output you want, look up guides on prompting. If you're anthropomorphizing the chatbot to the point you're worried about offending it... just don't worry? It's a computer program, don't overthink it, don't anthropomorphize it, just give it the input bytes you need to get the output bytes you want.
> I'm sure it's just a coincidence.
There isn't some grand conspiracy here. You just overindexed on the word "anthropomorphic" and didn't really understand what the discussion is about.