I am glad you have an anecdote to counter everyone else's, but the thing we should be using is data, not anecdotes.
The reality is that most places you get on the order of 200 bucks per person PER MONTH, so that's not going far on steaks and shrimp.
Auditing and finding fraud is useful, but we also have to value it against the cost of auditing and fraud management in the first place, and the value is put up against honest people who have to a decent chunk of hours every month juggling government paperwork and websites to get the most meager of handouts.