Something like:

"Plan out the change. Structure the plan so that it can be broken into individual PR's that each covers a single logical part of the change. Aim for less than 500 lines per PR unless the change is trivial and mechanical." (with a lower end model you need to be a lot more precise; with a frontier model you only really need to let it know you care about the PR size)

... in your prompts, coupled with gating PR creation on passing a stringent automated code review that also reviews it on whether or not it adheres to the rules you set regarding complexity of the PR, solves that problem without hiding the complexity.

If you have 230 file changes, that is a process failure unless they're purely obviously committing purely e.g. linter cleanups.