So when I said "a couple of nvidia engineers", I indeed meant Jeff.
VK_KHR_cooperative_matrix - embrace?
VK_NV_cooperative_matrix2 - extend?
I am pretty sure VkImportSemaphoreFdInfoKHR, mentioned in https://github.com/ggml-org/llama.cpp/issues/22648, works across multiple AMD devices, but somehow doesn't work across multiple nvidia devices.