The last two points are disputed/sound significantly more reasonable in [0]. So from what I gather, Buckmaster realizes sometime during the call that the biggest result of his career is going to get steamrolled (the blowup of Navier Stokes is a much bigger deal than the blowup of 3D Euler), and on the other hand the openAi guys realize that they are basically talking about internal results with Anthropic and probably have to call corporate right after this call. Between these two stressor the conversation appears to have gone somewhat poorly.
[0] https://x.com/SebastienBubeck/status/2097379411691516310