Maybe your headcannon should be that apes did a "tower of babel" type thing to make all the octopus individualistic and unable to organize into a civilization
[1] - https://www.smithsonianmag.com/smart-news/octopus-city-obser...
Almost all octopuses are cannibalistic but Abdopus have also been found living close to and tolerating each other
Should we wipe them out now, just to be safe?
(no, don't. all cephalopods should be protected)
They don’t raise their offspring
For the mothers, the entire time is spent cleaning and blowing water over the eggs.
It’s generally accepted this behavior is the necessary pair to their high aggression and cannibalism. It’s likely if they didn’t go through this they’d end up eating their babies. By dying, they make way for a new generation. And this is their reproductive strategy. Live a short very active life. If you survive, mate, then die and leave the hunting grounds to the next generation.
But not whether other adaptations could be possible. Fix the digestive tract issue and keep the female well fed and defending the nest in a different way