The problem is just that they are rewarding the behavior shallowly, ie rewarding the appearance of honesty or neutral replies, being highly detailed/thorough, even where it doesn't make sense to do so.
I think this is partly due to a reliance on LLM-as-judge training runs/synthetic data during RL where they're having a model which itself doesn't epistemically understand when this behavior is necessary or valuable influence the feedback provided to the model being trained. And that's mostly a problem of scale/volume and the desire to have a tight feedback loop rather than a safety issue IMO. They just generate an absurd amount of traces during training and the only way to really evaluate/rank/steer them at the scale they're generated is through other models, and combined with some kind of honesty/truthfulness/non-sycophancy eval that isn't robust enough to prevent mode collapse, you get this.