However, Software Update on Apple devices still allows you to turn off automatic update installation the way Windows used to.
For quite some time that I don't use home edition.
I also would not bet on Apple staying that way.
It's right up there with Microsoft's "you are not allowed to turn telemetry all the way off", or all the efforts to require the use of an online Microsoft account to access your own computer.
Ever heard of Local Group Policy Editor?
Secure Boot initially didn't allow the install of operating systems other than Windows.
Microsoft is the company continually attempting to lock down their general purpose computers, not Apple.
...and no. Microsoft backing down aftet consumers revolt doesn't mean their attempts don't count.
Yeah, I thought so too, but surprise surprise; some months ago one of the "minor" updates "broke" ("upgraded") something that made my CI/CD setup stop working, that's when I dropped the idea that Apple even do "minor" updates anymore.