big normie social media yes, but people still have hella actual conversations on bluesky and mastodon and (i think) they use chronological fields by default
for instance, when you say because they have to, not because they need to...
"have to" and "need to" mean the same thing, so i'm left with the choice of concluding your post is just mush or asking you to rephrase what you're trying to say in a way that's intelligible.