Rent for one bedroom apartment was 500$ in 1998, cold / hot water included other utilities are extra.
I was making 35K back then and it was enough to afford relatively good living - car, groceries, gas, occasional meal for 2 at a restaurant.
And gas was 35cents on the Wet Coast of Canada.
median asking rent in 2026 for NYC is $3616/mo ($43,392/yr) meaning rent alone would be 60% of that income, assuming that the $72.5k figure is after taxes (which it probably isnt).
if you take taxes off, you're probably at like 55-60k. that means rent alone is 70%-77% of income!
"living pretty well"?
The median household income in New York City is only $81,000 per year! People make it work!
where as the 72K vs 35K is only x2 increase
So, no, your math doesn't work.
It was common plot point in media to: 1) kick your kids out at 18, 2) if two men lived together they were assumed to be dating.
also - gentrification of apartment housing stock over time raising the price floor and phasing out of public housing
HVAC, transportation, anything beyond maybe emergency medicine, Internet access, education, drinkable tap water, …
The fact that the bulk of the US population has these things is what makes us a first world country.