And I don't think it's as simple as you make it. So where I work we use amongst other things Rails. There are places in our codebase where using joins just isn't feasable cause the database would use too much memory and let's just say N is large.
But since we use Rails we can have it query the tables apart and join the tables through the defined model. We literally save like 20 seconds in some cases because 1 HUGE query becomes 8 straightforward ones with maximum index usage.
And because we have this capability in Rails we would never use something like this, cause that would neccesate us holding two mental models and have a clear "what do we run where" directive which honestly is a PTA.