I don't think this is a result of "pestering" FB, you can dump your entire profile any time you want. As far as being concerned about what they're keeping, there's an easy solution ... don't upload the things you don't want the world to know about.
I don't think a FB account is a right, and I find it hard to sympathize with those that don't protect their own privacy (perhaps with the exception of kids who haven't gained that skill yet).