Just let me build a CRUD app, on the server, that spits out HTML without an excessive swamp of unmaintained nonsense and a cultish abhorrence of simplicity.
I personally chose C# for this reason, because ASP.NET is mature and (IMO) well designed. But there's also Java/Spring and and lots of other options in different languages depending on your preferences.
Not to mention that the demographic using Go - a simplistic-by-design, relatively slow GC'd language - is the last group I'd expect to get elitist about ORMs and demand every pound of performance from rawdogging SQL. That's a valid stance, but then why are you writing Go??! The common thread appears to be picking the most masochistic solution possible.
I can usually see the value of different languages for different use cases, but Go flummoxes me.
Had the rewrites not taken place, or Rust already being 1.0 by then, most likely would have had as many commercial success as Oberon and Limbo managed to.
You see this happening nowadays newer CNCF projects tend to be done in Rust, and there are even some that even go the C++ way, e.g. Envoy.
Judging by the community around Go, I also wonder if there's not an element of baby JS devs upskilling to Go, without yet having picked up a wider perspective. The performative aversion to DX could be explained if one sees Go as the opposite swing of the pendulum to JS and its excessive reliance on libraries, sugar, etc.