Many years ago I used Exim because it was default for my distro of choice back then. But after a few emergency patchings caused by yet another RCE in Exim I learned that switching to Postfix massively improved my sleep quality.
I’ve been looking at Stalwart to replace my old exim setup, wondering if it’s a reasonable choice.
The official release is not standard compliance. It does not support anything modern spam filter need. It don't get new updates or features. It have funny license.
You can use a fork... but I need to ask: which fork?
I use Postfix with MySQL, what is the issue with that?